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Who you calling fat?!?!

Posted by Tyrone Turner on November 6, 2009

You know folks, I should be motivated to get slimmer and trimmer, but I’ve just been lazy. My pants have been fitting me a little tighter, and my asthma has been bothering me a little, but I have been able to hack it. I’ve also been snoring like a den full of bears.

Hey, all was okay, but…

What I could not hack was when one of my co-workers called me fat today.

NOW I am motivated to get back to exercising. I actually like working out, but I’ve just been lazy.

Shame on me for not being a self-starter, but hey, I am surely motivated now. I can’t have people calling me fat.

I’m going to be 40-years-old on February 4th, 2010, and I want to show people that 40 is the new 30. I plan to be 40 and fly. You’ll have to call me Fly Ty.

I had knee surgery last December 2008, but that is no excuse for me gaining the weight I’ve gained.

Now, I am not that big, but I don’t like the way I’ve been feeling and my belly is definitely getting rounder. THAT is NOT cool!

I’m 5′, 9.5″, and weigh in at 236 lbs. I promise you, that I’ll be 210 lbs by my birthday. I know exactly what to do. It is just that I haven’t been doing anything.

Below is the program that I’ll be starting out with. My buddy, Raymond Brennan, over in the UK pulled my coat to this. My man in tights looks crazy, but trust me, it really does work.

He wrote it for martial artists, but anyone can do these routines as they get you functionally fit (i.e., real world conditioning that you can use in everyday life).

Check this out:

Strongfortism for the Martial Artist [and everyone else]
Lionel Strongfort

Reprinted by permission of the author, Copyright © Raymond Brennan 2002-2007. All rights reserved.

A number of years ago, a friend of mine in the martial arts world convinced me to try bench-pressing. He had been doing it for a while and believed that it added to his grappling skills and added more power to his punches. He was very convincing and meant well, so I decided to give it a go. My experience of barbell training prior to that was negligible to say the least, so I went down to the local gym and was instructed on correct form for the bench press. I also wanted something for the lower body, so I took instruction in the deadlift from one of the personal trainers there too. Because of my lack of prior experience, I never lifted without a spotter for the first month. My friend was lifting using a system of heavy weights for low reps. For example, he would press 50% of his body weight five times, take a brief rest and then do another five presses. He upped the weight every four weeks. He followed a similar scheme for the deadlift, though the weights lifted were much heavier. Together with a warm-up period on the stationary exercise bicycle of ten minutes, the whole session took about half an hour. Also, I trained three times a week, as the importance of giving the muscles a rest and allowing them to recover from the exertion of shifting iron was made clear to me in no uncertain terms.

How did it go ? Well, the idea of taking care of all my physical exercise needs by only training for thirty minutes three time a week was very appealing in itself. Also, I only had two exercises to learn and practice. What could be simpler or more convenient? It seemed to me to be a good use of my time, not too complicated and the social scene in the gym was appealing in its own right-a refreshing change from early morning solo training in my bedroom.

I was already fairly strong, yet my chest filled out nicely. I developed the right curves in the right places, my shirts got tight, my legs became much firmer and I got compliments from people on how well I was looking. On the mat, my strength increased, especially on the ground when getting out of locks and when applying holds. My punching power increased too-I actually cracked a makiwara once, to the accompanying sound of sharp intakes of breath and grudging appreciation from the other budoka present. My head swelled almost as much as my ego, let me tell you.

So why did I stop lifting heavy iron? Given all of the above advantages and benefits, why aren’t I doing it any more?

After a while (around six months in my case), I noticed that my range of motion was decreasing. For example, if someone on the mat was standing directly in front of me, I could push him or her very hard and (I am sorry to say) injured a number of my training partners in this manner without meaning to. In short, I was loosing the control and finesse, which is so necessary to train in a safe manner, especially when training with a beginner. I had replaced finesse with clumsiness. Note also that I said “directly in front of me”. If someone moved slightly to one side, I was as weak as a kitten. My strength at odd angles had actually decreased, as had my torso flexibility. All an opponent had to do was step to one side and I was finished. I couldn’t turn into my opponent, as fast as I used to and even if I did, the strength was just not there. My legs and lower back went the same way. This became especially obvious if I was involved in takedowns. If I made contact with my opponent’s leg, it had to be the lower calf. My erstwhile ability to throw from knee or lower thigh hooks seemed to evaporate. My legs were stronger, but they were also slower. Finally, I noticed that I was landing very hard indeed on breakfalls and shoulder rolls. From formerly having a smooth and silent roll, I now sounded like a gunnysack when I hit the mat. Friends pointed out to me (after some observation) that my lower back appeared to have stiffened to the extent that my upper and lower body appeared to be at odds with each other, rather than working as a harmonious whole with fluidity of motion. In plain English, I was getting stiffer and stiffer. An unwelcome by-product of this was that my endurance decreased. I was using up so much energy merely moving around that I had none left over for dealing with opponents. After ten minutes or so, I was out of breath, my entire body felt tired and had to keep stepping off the mat for short breaks.

Coupled with all of the above, I started getting a nagging pain in the back of my right shoulder. It was not sharp by any means. It was more of a gradually creeping numbness, which spread around the back of the shoulder. I mentioned this at the gym and was told “Sounds like an over-use injury. A lot of benchpressers are prone to these. Lay off the bench for a while and see how it goes”. I confined myself to deadlifts only for a month, but the nagging pain got worse. Further, my arm started going dead at odd moments when on the mat. Apart from the obvious danger this presented (try doing a forward roll with one arm suddenly useless and your chin tucked in under your arm and you’ll see what I mean) , it meant that martial arts gradually became out of bounds for me.

At that stage, fate intervened, as I emigrated to the UK, then got an office job and the following year got married. This all meant that I had no time for any regular form of training for a few years. My pain went away and I forgot all about weight lifting. I practiced martial arts solo and sporadically, but didn’t train regularly at a dojo for a number of years, as my life became full.

When my son was a year old, I was able to return properly to martial arts ie. Join a dojo again. As my training had only been intermittent, I found that I needed to ramp up my physical condition rapidly. Unfortunately, the old saying “Make haste slowly” never entered my head. I decided to stay away from bench pressing, but definitely do dead lifts. This time, I bought a barbell set and trained in my garage. The dead lifts worked my lower body OK, but I had nothing for the upper body. I heard about the side press and tried that, even buying a book on the Internet about how to perform the side press correctly. All went well again for a while. I lifted heavy weights for low repetitions and dropped the warm up altogether. I made good gains in a short period of time and was consequently able to strut my stuff on the mat with the best of them. I quickly got a reputation as a tough training partner-which was what I wanted, truth be told. One day, I had a hard time of it at work. I had a new boss who was a well-balanced individual-he had a chip on both shoulders and more hangups than your average art gallery. I wasn’t concentrating at all and the traffic on the way home that evening resembled a funeral procession more than anything else. My mind was most definitely not on training, yet I got changed into T-shirt and tracksuit bottoms and went out to the garage anyway. I did my two sets of deadlifts, rested, then picked up the barbell for the side press. The barbell was over my head when I remembered an incident at work earlier. I relaxed my grip and my concentration and -yes, you have guessed it-I brought the barbell down at an awkward angle. Immediately, I heard a crunching noise in my shoulder, followed by searing pain. A trip to the doctor confirmed that I had damaged cartilage in my right shoulder and traumatised rotator cuff muscles. The only cure for it was complete rest to the shoulder for a number of months. No weight lifting. No martial arts. “Great” I replied,”that is fabulous news”. However, I was not smiling.

Not unsurprisingly, I swore profusely for several moments and then resolved to find an alternative means of training, if and when I was ever able to train again. There and then, I parted company with heavy iron. I thought about my experiences for a period of time and came to the conclusion that it was unsuitable for me for the following reasons (all of which are evident in the tale of woe I have inflicted on you so far) :

1. Danger
I got one lift wrong, I let my concentration lapse for one moment and ended up idle for several months. Do I really want to train in such a risky fashion? Do I hell! I don’t know about you, but I can’t control my thoughts all the time, nor do I want to. Spock on the bridge of the Starship Enterprise is a fictional character, isn’t he ? Everyone has off days from time to time-it is part of being human. It shouldn’t mean that I run the risk of painful physical damage. No-one can perform every repetition of every exercise perfectly, regardless of what the exercise actually is. Something more forgiving than heavy iron was required.

2. Loss of Flexibility
As a martial artist, I need to be able to move across many planes of motion and from many angles. Particularly when engaged in a close-range art such as Zen Judo or Aikido, body turning and balance shifting are all-important. The last thing I want is to tighten up to such an extent that I can’t turn into an opponent, am unable to move fluidly around the mat and can’t breakfall compactly or roll across a shoulder softly. Also, should I need to apply strength for a takedown(which isn’t technically very good but can happen), I need to be able to apply it from as many angles as possible. Having great strength from one angle is OK, if that is the only angle I ever move along. However, as anyone who has spent twenty minutes in a dojo will know, at close quarters one has to be able to move across a wide range of angles and planes of motion. The same is true of strikes-ask any boxer. Being limited is the last thing I need and any mode of training which does this should not be part of any martial artist’s reportoire.

3. Muscular Hypertrophy and Rest
If you lift heavy, you should take the next day off. This is so that your muscles can rest and also change to meet the increased workload being placed on them, either by getting firmer or larger. Fine-except that power lifting is not my primary area of interest. I am only interested if it helps my martial arts training. In addition to physical conditioning, I also want to be able to practice the elements of my art. As any martial artist knows, there is no substitute for regular and consistent practice, particularly if learning a new technique or kata. If I am tired after weight training and have to rest the next day, when I can practice martial arts? Even more importantly, I am a husband and father. I like taking my kids to the park, telling them bedtime stories, playing games with them and so on. I like spending time with my wife, going around the shops with her etc. I am also employed by a company to do a job and do at least a full day’s work every weekday plus the occasional weekend. In short, I can’t be tired and I can’t be distracted, otherwise important areas of my life will suffer. I need to be fresh and have enough energy to get through the day. I can’t rearrange my life around “rest days”, “maximum days” or gym opening times.

4. Lack of Symmetry
Deadlifts are good for the legs. Bench or side pressing is good for the shoulders and chest. They do work other muscles besides those, but these muscle groups are the main focus of these lifts. My own experience was that I was all “arms and shoulders”. I was “top heavy”, if you’ll pardon the expression and therefore my balance became increasingly easy to break.

5. Loss of Endurance
It may sound obvious, but endurance is like anything else-use it or lose it. Even ten minutes of concentrated throwing can be exhausting. Mix in a few takedowns, traps and ground holds and the end result is a lot of huffing and puffing and a torso wringing in sweat-and that is when the injuries happen. I found that devoting all my energy to strength training meant that my endurance suffered and badly. Just before my shoulder injury, I found that I was taking an average of ten breaks per training session, because I simply no longer had the stamina to keep going. Why didn’t I run a few miles on the days when I wasn’t lifting? I tried it-and found that my knees sounded like a bowl of breakfast cereal. I hadn’t enough energy. It was that simple.

6. Boredom
This is a personal point, but I found that after four months solid lifting, I was dreading a training session. Doing two or three exercises over and over again is, in my experience and with hindsight, mind-numbingly boring. There are distractions in any gym during rest periods between sets, for example an attractive gym bunny clad in figure-hugging lycra and/or spandex doing a bent-over row, or her sister bouncing up and down on the treadmill. Just remember what I pointed out above about the need for concentration. And no, I am not being sexist-just honest. By this time, though, I am training alone in my garage, so the view isn’t as nice as it used to be.
Enough said.

7. Strength in Motion
The only way to improve at resistance training is to increase the resistance. This is the case whether the resistance takes the form of iron, bodyweight, cables or some combination of all three. However, a martial artist has an additional need-the need for strength in motion. Systems like Zen Judo or Aikido are characterised by constant motion and circular movements. Systems such as Shotokan Karate are primarily linear and strike-based, yet the need for moving strength is just as great. The best way to gain strength in motion is to train in motion and the best way to do that is by using whole-body movements when exercising. Lying on a bench or standing over a barbell while grunting inanely will not meet this need in particular.

8. Weak muscles and Correction of One-sided Movement
I had an injury as a teenager playing football, which resulted in me spending four months with my right leg in plaster of paris. Up until recently, the muscles in my right leg were smaller and weaker than my left. I always leaned more on my left side and on the mat, my counters and takedowns were always initiated from the left side. This is a serious handicap on the mat, as it makes you predictable. I could lead from either side, having been trained to do so, but I always instinctively led from the left. Bench or side pressing and deadlifting makes no allowance for physical irregularities of this nature. It did nothing to help my weak side and merely accentuated an existing imbalance. To finally correct this, I figured out that I needed some exercises which isolated various body parts and trained them specifically. I can’t imagine that I am unique in this. A lot of people get injuries of one type or another.

So, I had identified these eight problem areas. What to do? The solution lay in the training methods of one of the old-time “Mail Order Muscle Men”. Through participation in a number of internet message boards, I was directed to two websites devoted to the old-time strongmen , which had their entire courses freely available for download, thanks to the hard work of people such as Roger Filary, Gil Waldron, Gordon Anderson and many others. I owe these people a debt of gratitude for making this information available.

I perused both websites and tried out a number of these old-time courses, many of them dating from the early to mid twentieth century, though a few are even older than that. Many of the names on there — Eugen Sandow, Joe Bonomo, Martin “Farmer” Burns, Sig Klein, Maxick, Otto Arco, K.Y. Iyer , to name but a few — will be unknown to most people today. Yet, in their own era, these men were renowned far and wide for their feats of strength and endurance. I urge anyone with an interest in sound, sensible methods of physical culture which have had proven results to visit both of these websites. The addresses are:

www.sandowplus.co.uk; and www.maxaldingplus.com

The second website is devoted exclusively to the training methods of Maxick and has a number of his Muscle Control courses freely available. However, I am interested here in going to the first website, which is where you will find the Strongfort course, all ten Lessons of it. There are also a number of booklets written by Lionel Strongfort, one of which is entitled “Intelligence in Physical Culture”. I heartily recommend a reading of this. With its sensible, rational and honest approach to exercise, health and strength, it is typical of what appealed to me about Strongfortism from the start.

So what does Strongfortism consist of? It is much more than a set of exercises. It contains detailed instructions on diet, sleep, bathing and skin care as well as a number of tips on dealing with head colds, chills and psoriasis and is well worth reading for these alone, quite apart from the exercises. It is equitably suitable for males and females. Mrs. Strongfort published a book in the 1920s for women which had basically the same exercises, except that they were illustrated by her rather her husband.

However, in this article, I am concerned with the exercises. Though dumbbells are used in most of the exercises, they are very light. I have been practising Strongfortism myself for over six months consistently at this point and am only using a pair of five pounders. I find that they provide more than enough resistance. Strongfort himself states clearly in several places that , for the majority of people, heavy lifting is not advisable. Over a period of time, it can tear down the body, whereas his exercises are concerned with building the body up. He did lift heavy weights himself and had a gym in Newark, USA for a number of years. However, he was very careful about who he selected as students and was reportedly quite particular about technique. He also advocated slight moderate increases in the amount lifted. For most people, his course is more than sufficient to meet the needs of physical culture. The bulk of his own personal training (despite the fact that he was a professional strongman and held shows in several major cities) was done using his own exercises.

Strongfort did not believe in deep breathing exercises, being of the opinion that they placed an undue strain on the heart. He was also against training to failure, as this tears down the muscles and internal organs of the body and over the long term does far more harm than good. He was in favour of breathing normally while exercising and advocated exercising such that a slight local fatigue was the desired object. He did not regard his exercises as weight-training, but rather as a system of callisthenics with a little added resistance. They number over thirty in all and are a mixture of isolation-type moves, whole body movements, tensing exercises and ballistic drills. They are arranged in such a way that each part of the body is exercised then rested, in turn. Like any good system of exercise, they begin with the core and work outwards. Lesson One is mainly a set of stretching exercises to prepare the body for the coming exercises. The second and last exercises in this Lesson alone are excellent for the spine and abdomen. By the time you get to Lesson Ten, you should be able to manage a one-legged squat without much trouble and a one-armed dip with relative ease. Believe me, it takes someone fit and strong to be able to do either one.

Because of the large number and different type of exercises contained therein, the interest of the person is held throughout a training session. However, the next Lesson builds on the work of the preceding one. Muscle groups are strengthened in preparation for coming exercises. Hence, it is important that the exercises be done in the order in which they are given and that none are excluded. Overall, the exercises are gentle and could easily be done by someone over the age of fifty. This is important for those of us under fifty, as it means that we won’t be worn out by the time we reach the magic half-century, due to damaging exercise methods in our youth.

Strongfort, like a lot of the old-time “Mail Order Musclemen”, did not give repetition figures for most of his exercises. This seems to have been standard practice for the most part in those days, especially the early twentieth century. I found this difficult to cope with, brought up as I was on sets and repetitions. Through trial and error, I devised a scheme of repetitions, which I offer for your perusal. You may come up with a better one, or at least one more suited to your own needs and likes. If so, fine by me.

Each Lesson is meant to be added to the ones preceding it and there are 10 Lessons in all. A new Lesson is to be added every two weeks. I train six mornings a week, Monday to Saturday and rest on Sunday. When I began Lesson One, I proceeded like this:

Monday to Wednesday First Week-five reps each exercise Lesson One
Thursday to Saturday First Week-ten reps each exercise
Monday to Wednesday Second Week-fifteen reps each exercise
Thursday to Saturday Second Week-twenty reps each exercise
I then dropped the reps for Lesson One to ten from here on out and added Lesson Two in the same manner. Thus, by the time I got to Lesson Ten, I was doing ten reps for all of the exercises in Lessons One to Nine on the first Monday of that fortnight, before doing the Exercises in Lesson Ten.
I hope this is clear.

I raised eight issues about training with heavy iron. I propose to relate how Strongfortism overcame these issues. Remember that this is not opinion or theory, but rather my own concrete experience.

1. Danger
What danger ? After six months, I have moved from 4LB dumbbells to 5LB ones. Strongfort sold his own brand of dumbbells, which were sent out with the course. The heaviest they went up to was 8LB. One’s weekly grocery shopping these days is much heavier. Strongfort admonishes in several places to avoid strain. Keep exercising consistently and regularly and “practice will make you perfect”. The lumbar region of my spine is no longer being strained by holding huge weights overhead and my knees are no longer getting supra-bodyweight shocks like they used to. My joints are getting exercised as much as my muscles, so I have no stiffness of motion. There is a lot to be said for common sense and a rational approach to exercise.

2. Loss of Flexibility
The only effect Strongfortism has had on my flexibility is to increase it markedly. Also, I now have pain-free movement, despite having a number of old injuries. A lot of the exercises, particularly in Lessons One to Five, are merely stretches with added resistance. After my morning session of Strongfortism, I feel (and look) much more limber than before.

3. Muscular Hypertrophy and Rest
My muscles were a bit sore for the first fortnight, but it was very mild indeed compared to what I had when I did heavy lifting. Also, the soreness was due to the muscles and joints loosening up, not as a result of strain. It was a “strengthening soreness” if that makes sense. Since then, I have had no soreness, yet my muscles have increased in size, plus I have a lot more definition and tone. My upper back in particular resembles an anatomy chart. I don’t consider myself overly vain, but I am human all the same. Also, my kids especially are grateful for Strongfortism, as I now have (almost) enough energy to keep up with them.

4. Lack of Symmetry
Symmetry is a must, in my opinion, for anyone engaged in any kind of grappling activity. This is because of the need to be able to move in a large number of planes of motion and across many angles. The same is true for people who train in striking arts. The power in a punch starts, not in the shoulder of the punching arm, but rather in the abdomen if not the snap of the hip. In other words, muscular arms and legs alone won’t cut the mustard. The torso and all of the stabilising muscles need to be worked on also. Strongfortism, because of its scientific and graduated approach and the means by which it takes a trip around the body, ensures symmetry of development. Also, you are only as strong as your weakest link. You may have bulging biceps, but they won’t be much good to you on the mat if your abdomen has the consistency of day-old soup. One punch there from your opponent and the only thing you will be punching is yourself, after you are lifted up from the floor. The simplest and most effective way ’round this is to have no weak links and that is possible if you train for symmetry.

5. Loss of Endurance
It certainly was not obvious to me at first glance, but subsequent experience has shown to me that Strongfortism builds endurance just as much as it does strength. An average morning session with all ten Lessons contained in it takes anywhere between forty and fifty minutes. During that time, even though the exercises are gentle, the body (either all of it or one part) is in constant motion. Oddly, I have never felt tired after a session of Strongfortism. I do feel some localised fatigue sometimes, but I have never felt weary. Rather, I feel energised and invigorated. I have enough energy left over for the rest of the day. To my mind, that is how exercise should make one feel. I am not overdoing it , but neither am I doing too little.

As regards martial arts in particular, I can hold my own without any trouble on the mat. If I am beaten these days when sparring, it is due to lack of skill on my part, not because I have run out of steam and need to take a break or because my muscles have given out. Also, my rolls are soft and fluid and my breakfalls are firm without feeling as if I have been kicked by a ploughhorse.

6. Boredom
Despite the lack of lycra-wearing gym bunnies in my garage in the mornings, the low reps and sheer number of exercises mean that my attention is held throughout a training session. Changing exercise every ten reps, as well as avoiding overdoing it, means that I constantly have something new to think about when exercising.

7. Strength in Motion
A good number of the exercises are whole body exercises, particularly in the last three Lessons. Their similarity to martial arts moves (both striking and grappling) is readily apparent. However, the same is true of Lesson Four. Nearly every normal plane of motion and angle is covered in one or other of the exercises. On the mat, I have definitely found that my strength has increased across the board, unlike the solitary angle of power that heavy lifting gave me.

8. Weak muscles and Correction of One-sided Movement
As I mentioned earlier, I had some muscle wastage in my right leg. While it didn’t mean I had to use a walking stick, it did interfere with my martial arts practice and made me predictable. Lessons Two and Three in particular helped me to correct this, as the exercises are to be done on each side. I simply did a few more repetitions on my weak side, until it came into line with my strong side. With Strongfort, symmetry is one of the foundational principles of his system of exercise. I never appreciated how important this is to martial arts in particular until recently — since I have become a lot less predictable on the mat than I used to be.

***Raymond Brennan can be reached at nafs65@hotmail.com***

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Webcam Pitch Party

Posted by Tyrone Turner on October 21, 2009

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TokBox – Free Video Chat and Video Messaging

We’re brining solopreneurs from all over the country together for organized, video/webcam networking events using a “pitch party” format. A pitch party is when everyone takes a turn giving their one-minute “elevator pitch” so that others can better understand what they are selling, to whom they are selling, and the benefits of their product or service. Prominent off-line, face-to-face networking groups like BNI, Le Tip, and Leads Club use a pitch party format.

The way we’re able to bring business people from around the country together for virtual face-to-face networking is by using the free platform provided by TokBox.

Ideally, this will be used for entrepreneurs who are local to each other. This is a cool way to network, but it DOES NOT replace speed networking over the phone events or face-to-face networking events.

To learn more about what we’re proposing with web cam pitch party, go to www.WebcamPitchParty.com.

Let me know what you think.

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You are still here!

Posted by Tyrone Turner on October 14, 2009

Sometimes, we feel overwhelmed and that we don’t have a snowball’s chance in Hell to have success or some other desirable outcome. But the fact of the matter is, you are still here so as long as you can look up, you can get up.

Lean on your faith – believe in yourself, believe in the righteousness of your goal; believe in your allies; and have faith in a higher power.

Be inspired by these words from Laurence Fishburne in his portrayal of Morpheus in the movie The Matrix Reloaded.

Just follow these six steps, and what you desire will be your’s in uncommon hours:

  1. THINK about what you want
  2. SPEAK about what you want
  3. Take ACTIONS toward getting it
  4. Make your pursuit a HABIT – do something every day to put yourself closer
  5. NEVER QUIT no matter what happens
  6. Enjoy the RESULTS of your labor

Be advised, that these six steps always yield results, but make sure that you start with positive, desirable thoughts, or you may be quite displeased with the results.

Remember the old-school computer jargon – ‘GIGO’ – garbage in, garbage out.

“Don’t have stinking thinking.” ~ Zig Ziglar

See you at the top, folks…

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Book review – “Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man”

Posted by Tyrone Turner on October 5, 2009

act like a lady

I am really digging Steve Harvey. This man is a successful comedian, has a syndicated television show, and nationally-broadcast morning radio show, movie appearances, and now a best-selling book. ‘Uncle Steve’ is my man!

Now, about this book that has caused so much controversy…

I picked it up at the library over the weekend, and I have to say, the book is on point. It is of course subjective, but Uncle Steve really drops science in this book. Most people are focusing in on what he has to say about how to tell if the man is playing you or treating you like a ‘throwback’, but in my opinion, women should pay at least equal if not more attention to what he says about how men actually think.

We men are very simple and easy to figure out. You just have to be able to read the clear signs that you’re being given and not try to change the man because in most cases, that ain’t happening. Most men are the same – regardless of color, creed, religion, national origin, or ethnicity.

Please pick up a copy of this book. As a matter of fact, buy it and add it to your library. I’d love to hear what women who have read the book have to say about the book. Please do chime in.

Thanks for your time.

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Reading is fundamental

Posted by Tyrone Turner on October 2, 2009

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Note: Italics indicate book titles. Can YOU identify the book titles in this poem?

“Reading is fundamental”
by Tyrone Turner
Copyright 2009. All rights reserved.

If you want to hide something from people, put it between the covers of a book.

Those who venture into books will find pearls of wisdom and insight worth it’s weight in gold. You can use that information to achieve a platinum lifestyle and live on acres of diamonds.

So, here is what you can learn by reading…

What makes the great great? What is the secret? You can learn to become the richest man in Babylon even if you don’t have a rich dad or if you aren’t the millionaire next door.

You can be counted among the outliers in a relative blink of time’s eye and be able to identify the tipping point that start trends.

There are 7 habits of highly effective people that can awaken the giant within and give you unlimited power. You’ll be 10 feet tall and bulletproof so it simply won’t matter when someone changes the game on you. You’ll say, “It doesn’t matter who moved my cheese.”

Be gung ho in the face of adversity and and people will notice you and will become your raving fans. That is how the law of attraction works. Make sure to also abide by the 48 laws of power and the 50th law. Hmmm…the 33 rules of war may be helpful, too. You can be like the Prince[cess] and be able to win friends and influence people.

You are better than you think because everyone’s a coach. When your mission is creating affluence you can help more people. That is why Donald and Robert say, “We want you to be rich.”

Be guilty of acts of faith and have the audacity of hope. Uncover the lies my teacher told me (well, some of them, anyway). Whisper the prayer of Jabez and become a better you.

Don’t underestimate the power of positive thinking. Your ancestors’ origins in this country may have come up from slavery, but learn the way of the bootstrapper because it is not over until you win.

Living an abundant life is possible. Doing good deeds and hard work is instrumental, but reading is fundamental.

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Blessings

Posted by Tyrone Turner on October 2, 2009

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“Blessings”
by Tyrone Turner
Copyright 2009. All rights reserved.

As difficult as things may get and as bleak as the future may look, there are millions of people who would love to have your predicament over the one that they are in.

After the thunder, lightning, and torrential rain, the sun will shine again. Always keep your face to the sunlight because then you will not notice life’s shadows.

The human being has dominion over all things on earth. Face your fears and get to know yourself. Don’t put your head in the ground like an ostrich.

The world is your oyster. Go get your pearl! Your mind is fertile ground where you can plant the seeds of better tomorrows that will become reality in time.

Buddha said, “We become what we think about,” so make sure that you don’t have ’stinkin thinkin’.

*Have a positive mental attitude and combine it with productive, meaningful actions. That way you’ll have positively massive affluence.

You can have whatever you want. A house, a car, love, travel – a full life with all of it’s bells, whistles, and window dressings.

Just keep working hard, never quit, put good karma out there, keep the faith, and count your blessings.

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*This is PMA3 / PMA Cubed as taught by Transforming Debt to Wealth guru, John Cummuta.

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Pull your damn pants up!

Posted by Tyrone Turner on October 2, 2009

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What the fudge!?!?

Why is this considered fashionable? I’m tired of seeing these young men walking around with their pants falling down. How in the hell does that happen when you have a belt on?

I see these clowns wearing their pants like this sitting on the train. I saw this young fella with sagging pants on the train this morning reading a newspaper. I had to look around to make sure I wasn’t in his bathroom – if you know what I mean.

Hey, I’m starting a movement and I need deputies. Let’s call it the “Pull your damn pants up movement”.

Our posse is going to go around giving wedgies to knuckleheads wearing their pants like this. Here is your deputy badge,

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You’ll get extra brownie points with me if you snatch tags off of shirts and jeans, and peel labels off of these guys baseball caps.

I hear that this is the style because “this is how they do in jail”. Since when should we aspire to mimic jail behavior? That is totally stupid. To do so you submit yourself to the mercy of the prison industrial complex.

It is written, “…be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect…” (ROMANS, 12:2). Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. said, “Conformity is the ultimate expression of cowardice.”

I love Hip Hop and I love young people. However, overall Hip Hop has been quite wack for a minute now and I hope that it will get back on the path and stop indoctrinating our young people in ‘dumbassedness’.

Thanks for allowing me to vent.

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Thoughts on Killer Instinct

Posted by Tyrone Turner on September 30, 2009

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Do we need killer instinct?
by Tyrone Turner
Martial Artist / Combat Athlete
Copyright 2004-2009
All rights reserved.

On Internet discussion boards and ads in popular martial arts magazines, you always hear claims about programs that will help you develop killer instinct, and that will teach you the combat secrets of some kind of military special operations unit. Apparently, they are doing well because how else could they afford all of that ad space? Darn crooks are reaping profits at the expense of ill-advised clientele.

As a martial artist, do we need “killer instinct?” I say no. One of my instructors, Roman Lutak, always tells us to have attitude when practicing our techniques. He explains that attitude doesn’t mean having a chip on your shoulder, but rather that you as a law-abiding, peace-loving citizen that generally will not attack another person without provocation, have the “might of right” on your side. Knowing that you did all in your power to avoid a confrontation (i.e. being aware, polite, and made attempts to diffuse a situation) will give you the serenity to defend yourself. One doesn’t need a killer instinct to do that.

I hear a lot of talk about people practicing possibly lethal techniques like neck-breaks, and lethal strikes with sticks and bladed weapons. Why bother focusing your training on these things? Now, knowing how to use and defend against weapons is highly recommended, but if you are focusing on slicing and dicing vitals, that is another matter all together. The law most certainly wouldn’t be kind to a martial artist that kills someone. Also, you run the risk of being sued for maiming someone or for killing them. How will their family survive without the now disabled or deceased person contributing his / her income?

It is probably highly unlikely that a civilian will have to kill someone. Of course, in a worst case scenario, one may be forced to take such measures, but how likely is that? Most violent incidents can be avoided. If you find yourself always getting into fights, you need to make some lifestyle changes because you’re probably hanging out in the wrong places and keeping company with the wrong people. Also, perhaps it is the person in the mirror that is the sociopath that brings out the worst in everyone they come into contact with. Help that individual become a better person. Maybe counseling, yoga, Tai Chi, or religion will help.

I have had two fights in the last 20 years. In both instances the attacks came from a mentally disturbed person in the crowded streets of midtown Manhattan during broad daylight – not in a secluded back alley. As aggressive as they were, I didn’t have to kill them. In the first instance, a sweeping hip throw (harai goshi) stopped the attack immediately. Believe me, when someone is on the receiving end of a powerful Judo throw, they will cease and desist from being an immediate threat.

In the second fight, a solid step-in jab dropped the attacker, and comfortable shoes helped me get away from the scene. Yes I ran away. Making a quick escape is best thing to do because you do not know if the attacker has any weapons or if they are with others. It wasn’t killer instinct that saved me in either instance but awareness of my surroundings and the muscle-memorization of a few techniques that was achieved through repetitve drills and practice.

As a black belt in Zujitsu, I have developed a new appreciation of some of the unique drills and concepts that we are taught like “The Rope, Cleaning the Ants”, and “The Bumblebee”. Through more regular practice of these exercises, I have been able to improve my technique by being more economical in my reactions and therefore much more effective. Hey, less movable parts means that less can go wrong, right? I implore my fellow martial artists to look into practicing these drills, along with the basics of their martial art on a regular basis. The Zujitsu training drills are truly the way to gain a greater understanding of martial concepts. There are several drills that you can do without a partner in the comfort of your home so don’t make any excuses and just do it!

Do not get caught up with trying to learn hundreds of techniques. In reality, the basics are all that you’ll ever really need. Focus instead on understanding concepts. I highly recommend a video by Bob Orlando called Fighting Arts of Indonesia, and a companion book entitled Indonesian Fighting Fundamentals. Mr. Orlando is a master teacher and you will not be disappointed with the way he explains concepts and demonstrates drills that really help you become “ready for action.”

Remember, when it comes to protecting yourself and those that you love, strive to be a law-abiding, peace-loving person – Not a killer.

Train hard and keep yourself safe.

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You are not alone – team up!

Posted by Tyrone Turner on September 29, 2009

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Sometimes we all feel a little lonely. Especially those of us that have the audacity to dream during the day and stay awake at night thinking about how we want to be free – to have a better quality of life for ourselves and our family. The best thing to do is team up with others who are like-minded. They are out there, but you have to go out there to meet them.

With the advent of special interest groups on social media sites like Facebook, and Web 2.0 sites like BlitzTime, you can most certainly meet people who are like minded.

In Napolean Hill’s best-selling book Think and Grow Rich, he discusses forming ‘Mastermind Groups’. That way you can leverage each other’s talents and achieve success in uncommon hours. It is written that where two are gathered [for a worthy goal], I will be there also.

What prompted me to even post this is a conversation that I had with an old high school classmate of mine named Vanessa Hall. I haven’t seen Vanessa for more than 20 years and we really hung out or anything like that, but here we are 20+ years later and we have a common goal – to help create business incubators and community service organizations for, by, and in the community (i.e. inner-city). It is our hope to give back to the community that has given us so much.

I want to do so by creating a not-for-profit organization that will award educational grants for graduating seniors who are comeback kids (i.e. most improved), and Vanessa wants to start a magazine and bring workshops and such to the adult population. Sort of like continuing education programs offered by colleges and universities.

We don’t know exactly how we’re going to work it out, but I remember reading in Deepak Chopra’s book, Creating Affluence, that all we had to have was the ‘What’ and the ‘Why’. The universe / infinite intelligence / GOD / the Universe / the Force will handle the ‘How’ and ‘When’.

I will most certainly keep you posted.

Thanks for tuning in.

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The Lumberjack Story

Posted by Tyrone Turner on September 28, 2009

The below story is a slightly revised version of an article that was written by Tom “Big Al” Schreiter. He is one of my absolutely favorite success coaches.

Anyway, without any further ado, check this out…

“The Lumberjack Story”

An experienced lumberjack walked past one of the new recruits. The new recruit viciously chopped away at the large tree but only managed to bruise the bark. Seeing the hard work and wasted effort, the experienced lumberjack said, “Hey, why don’t you sharpen your ax? It will make you much more efficient.”

The new recruit answered, “No. I can’t take the time to sharpen my ax. I’m busy trying to cut down this tree.”

Many new business owners suffer from the “dull ax” syndrome. They set goals, work hard, but never reach the success they desire. Why? Because they never took the time to sharpen their “ax” by learning new, effective skills. These entrepreneurs waste effort, waste resources, and waste their careers. If only they would take a little time away from their frenzied futility to learn the skills that would serve them for a lifetime.

As home-based business expert Tom Paredes says, “You need training even if you get a job at McDonald’s flipping hamburgers. So why not expect to invest some time and effort in learning new skills for your business?”

What happens when new entrepreneurs venture into business uninformed? Let’s go back to our new lumberjack.

It seems the new lumberjack finally got tired of beating his dull ax against the tree. In desperation, he went into town to the local hardware store. The manager of the hardware store said, “Yep. Your ax sure is dull. But, if I were you, I wouldn’t get the ax sharpened. There is a new way of cutting trees that is even better than a sharp ax. It’s called a chain saw.”

“Just give me that chain saw and I’m outta here,” said the new lumberjack. He took the chain saw and disappeared into the woods.

Two days later the new lumberjack returned to the hardware store. He was sweaty, had blisters on his hands, and looked very depressed. He found the store manager and said, “Hey you. You sold me this chain saw and promised me better results. I’ve been slaving away in the woods for two days and still haven’t finished cutting down my first tree!”

The store manager replied, “Well son, just hand the chain saw over here and let me see what the problem is.” The store manager examined the chain saw and saw nothing wrong. Then he grabbed the starter cord and gave it a big pull.

“B-b-b-r-r-r-r-r-o-o-o-o-o-o-o-o-m-m-m-m-m!” The chain saw belched some smoke and began to run.

“Hey! What’s that noise?” the new lumberjack exclaimed.

It seems that the new lumberjack never took the time to learn the features or even how to use his new tool.

The same is true about life in general. To become successful, one must not only acquire new tools, but also the knowledge on how to use them. The founder of the McDonald’s franchise, Ray Kroc, said it best: “If you’re not getting better, you’re getting worse.”

I this “hurry-up I’m in a rush society”, it will take some discipline and time investment to perfect one’s new business-building skills.

The payoff?

Almost anything you want. All you have to do is be willing to change. After all, Michelangelo changed from painting floors to painting ceilings when he got the Sistine Chapel job. The same new opportunities await the new-and-improved YOU.

Enough said…

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